A few minor (or not) updates:
CBD:
Last Sunday, CBD gave me my first boy date. I was looking forward to it as something different. I knew it wasn't going to go well from the start. You know that thing they say about speed dating? That you only need that short time to know how things are going to go with someone? Yeah. It's totally true. Maybe not in as short of a time as those things give you, but it's true. I always know within the first ten minutes of a date if it's going to go well.
So this date... First of all, he picked a coffee shop at 8:00 on a Sunday night. Of course, they closed at 8. I got there first, so I waited for him at one of the tables outside. When he showed up, I asked if he wanted to go to one of the bars and get something to drink. After all, there we were, pretty much right in the middle of bar central in Hollywood. He said he didn't drink.
That was the first bad sign. Yes, I have plenty of friends who don't drink, but those are also the same friends who aren't much fun to go out with.
"All right, how about we go across the street for coffee then?" (Yes, there really is a coffee shop across the street from the coffee shop.) Then he told me that he didn't really like coffee either. "Tea? Do you like tea?" "Not really."
This was the second bad sign. Oh, and when it comes to CBD, you really only have two options for meeting places: Bars and coffee shops. First ten minutes? Yep.
So, how best to describe this date? Total geek. In both the positive and negative senses. He was really into computers, video games, and science fiction. But he didn't drink, didn't like coffee or tea, didn't gamble (I also learned this during the course of the night), and, worst of all, bored me. When you can have that much in common with someone and they're still boring you, something isn't right. I spent half the night hanging out with him, and I felt like I would have had more fun if I had killed the date early and just went to hang out at the bar by myself.
So that's that.
Work stuff:
Randy quit. Or was fired. Or both, really. He got into an argument with Sam (our boss, and his now former friend). Work was already pretty rough with Randy. We needed more people then. Now we've lost our best guy. Of course, now they're starting to realize that they're really in trouble, but it's a bit late for that. So work has been even busier.
In more selfish concerns, that also means that I have to find a different way home from work every night. I've been getting a ride from Mario, one of our guys who lives not too far from me, but he plans on biking home when it gets warmer. I may have some long walks home at night in my future. There is a bus I can take part of the way, but I may have to wait some time for it at that time of night.
Home:
Kelli plans to move at the beginning of August. I have to find a new roommate by then. If I can't, I'll be paying my rent by myself for a bit. I can do that, but it'd be pretty rough. I'd barely be able to make rent, bills, and food. And money matters aren't the best at this point to begin with.
I'd like to have a slightly longer period of stability and normalcy, I think. Maybe a full year, even. That'd be nice.